In Ontario, Children's Aid
Societies are primarily involved in the adoption of older
children and in some instances, adoptions of children where
a birth parent consents to making an adoption plan. The following
describes both types of adoptions and each process that adoptive
families must take.
Waiting Time to Adopt
through CAS in Ontario
How long your family waits
to adopt through CAS depends on a number of factors including:
- the age of the child you're hoping to
adopt
- if you would consider adopting a child
with special needs or a child who is a different race or
culture
- if you're willing to adopt a sibling
group
Waiting time to have a child
placed in your home varies depending on circumstances, but
the average length of time is:
- Less than one year for special needs
children and children of a visible minority who are Crown
wards
- Two to four years - Healthy Caucasian
infant in Ontario or from another province
- One to two years - International adoption
(depending on the country)
Most adoptive families find the waiting
time the most difficult part of the process. It's important
to be proactive during your wait to adopt. The following are
some tips for adopting through a Children's Aid Society:
- Check in with your adoption worker on
a regular basis to see if you are being considered for any
possible matches.
- Contact other CAS agencies and ask if
you could send them your homestudy and profile for any possible
matches.
- Register with Adopt
Ontario's web site or Canada's
Waiting Kids and view profiles of children who are waiting
to be adopted.
Infant adoptions "by consent"
through a Children's Aid Society are not as common today since
many birth parents are referred to private adoption agencies
or they choose to parent. Most, but not all, parents who make
an adoption plan for their child want some degree of openness
and the opportunity to choose the adoptive family.
In the past, Children's Aid Societies didn't involve birth
parents in the selection of the adoptive parents nor did they
encourage openness in adoption. In the last few years this
has changed and many CAS agencies are encouraging birth parents
who consent to adoption to become involved and have 'a voice'
in the adoption process for their child(ren).
STEP 1: Prospective adoptive
parents go through a preparation/homestudy process with an
assigned adoption worker at their local agency. They must
also enroll in and attend a mandatory education program called
PRIDE.
STEP 2: Adoptive families
are approved for adoption and may help prepare a personal
profile of their family to be presented to birth parents.
STEP 3: A birth parent,
who is working with the agency's pregnancy counselor or family
services worker during pregnancy, or requests assistance from
the Children's Aid Society at the birth of a child, is provided
with the opportunity to consider alternatives and to select
an adoption home for the child.
STEP 4: Approved adoptive
parents are selected for a particular child either directly
by birth parents' choice through profile selection, by birth
parent criteria if they choose not to select personally, or
by adoption workers where the birth parent does not choose
to be/or is unavailable to be involved.
STEP 5: Birth parents
may choose to meet the adoptive parents in hospital or following
discharge, and may choose to be directly involved in placement
where possible.
STEP 6: A child may be
placed directly from hospital with the adoptive parents or
may be placed from a foster home, depending upon circumstances
of placement.
STEP 7: The form of post
placement contact between birth family and adoption family
is established during the pre-placement process
STEP 8: A minimum of 6
months supervision of adoption placement is legally required
and the adoption worker will visit to provide support during
this time. The adoption is legally finalized through the court
by the agency. No lawyer or fee is involved in a CAS adoption.
Older Child Adoptions
Most adoptions through the Children's Aid
Societies in Ontario are of older children. Each agency is
responsible for the children who come into their care in their
geographical area. When a child's legal connections to their
birth parents are terminated through a court process called
"Crown Wardship" they are then considered to be
legally free to be adopted. While there are some younger children
(under 3) the majority of children range in age from 4 to
18 years and all are considered to have special needs.
In this case, the term 'special needs' can
be applied to a variety of situations as every child, as well
their needs and circumstances, are different. Examples of
such needs include:
- Being part of a sibling group that needs
to be adopted together
- Racial or cultural identities that are
different from the adoptive family
- Adoption as a toddler, young child or
adolescent
- Mental or physical health issues
- Learning, behavioural or developmental
delays
- Genetic risk factors
- Abuse issues and dealing with past trauma(s)
- Attachment or loss issues
- Unknown or difficult backgrounds
- Incomplete history
Procedures may vary from agency to agency,
but will be similar to the following steps:
STEP 1: Contact your local Children's
Aid Society. The CAS intake adoption worker will
answer any questions you have about the adoption process.
CAS will then send you an information package as well as forms
to fill out and return.
STEP 2: PRIDE Training. All
prospective adoptive parents, whether adopting through CAS
or a private agency, must now enroll in and attend the nine
week education program called PRIDE.
STEP 3: Homestudy. Once
your family has completed the PRIDE training, you will be
assigned a social worker who will conduct your family's homestudy.
Ontario's homestudies are in the SAFE format (more
info about SAFE homestudies can be found here).
STEP 4: Wait for a Match. Once
your homestudy has been completed, you are entitled to read
a copy of the report. Your homestudy will be given to other
workers at your agency for consideration of children who become
available for adoption. Workers review your homestudy and
determine your suitability based on the needs of the children
on their caseload.
STEP 5: Network while you wait!
Hopefully during your homestudy, your social worker
explained the importance of creating a profile of your family
that can be handed out to other CAS agencies. CAS agencies
in Ontario are not linked to share homestudies of applicants
so it's up to you to send your profile to adoption workers
across the province. (Click
here for more info on networking) Adoption workers
do search for suitable applicants through the Adopt Ontario
family database or at the biannual Adoption REsource Exchange.
* Note: Approved applicants may also look at children
on the Adopt Ontario site/ or Today’s Child, or attend
the Adoption Resource Exchange (A.R.E.) presentations to self
select a child/ren for whom they wish to be considered
STEP 6: The match! When
a child has been selected as a match for your family, your
social worker will contact you with the news and share information
about the child for your consideration. You will learn about
the child's social and medical history and may even see a
photo or video of them. At this time, your family must decide
if you will accept the match and move forward. It's important
to ask questions during this time and consult professionals
if the child has any possible health and/or developmental
issues. Don't be afraid to say 'no' to a proposed match -
social workers would prefer you do say no if you feel that
the child would not be a good fit with your family.
STEP 7: Pre-placement visits - Congratulations!
You've decided to accept the match and you're going
to be a parent! Your next step will be a series of pre-placement
visits with your new son or daughter. These are done in order
to achieve a comfort level for the child and family prior
to the final move to your home. Pre-placement visits are often
spent at the child's foster home where you'll spend time bonding
with your new son or daughter. What occurs during these visits
is largely dependent on the child's age - if the child is
an infant, you'll spend much of your time learning how the
baby likes to be held, fed, diapered, bathed and their bedtime
and daily routines. With an older child, pre-placement visits
with be quite different as you'll able to talk with them about
interests, engage in activities they enjoy and also learn
about their daily routines from both the child and their foster
family.
* The length of time for pre-placement visits
is greatly dependent on the age of a child and their comfort.
An infant will attach to his/her adoptive parents much faster
than an older child who has been in foster care for several
years. The child's best interests and comfort are the priority
to ensure a smooth transition.
STEP 8: Welcome your new son or
daughter home! Once you've completed the pre-placement
visits, your child will move to your home. Your social worker
will visit with you 7 days after placement to ensure everyone
is adjusting well. This period of supervision will continue
for a minimum of 6 months as required by legislation or for
whatever period of time is required for the family to be prepared
for legal finalization of the adoption. This is frequently
a period ranging from 12 to 24 months.
STEP 7: The adoption
is finalized in the court serving the area where the adoptive
family lives. All legal work is provided with the assistance
of the agency and no fee is involved.
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