Approximately half of all adoptions in British
Columbia are conducted by the Ministry of Children and Family
Development. The majority of children who are waiting to be
adopted in British Columbia through the Ministry are between
the ages of 4 and 10 years old. There are some who are younger
and some are as old as 18. Many of these children have special
physical or medical needs; some were exposed to drugs and
alcohol while in utero and others were abused or neglected.
Many of the children have family ties that need to remain
intact and some children are part of a sibling group that
needs to be placed together.
To adopt a waiting child in British Columbia,
the Ministry outlines a series of steps for applicants on
its web site:
STEP 1 - Find out more about adoption. For
helpful information about adopting British Columbia's waiting
children, Call: 1 877 ADOPT 07 / 1 877 236-7807. Or, contact
an adoption support coordinator in your region.
STEP 2 - Meet with a social worker.
A social worker from your region will contact you
and your family to arrange a meeting to talk about adoption
and the special needs of the waiting children in British Columbia.
After this meeting, if you are still interested in a special
needs adoption, you can fill out an application form.
STEP 3 - Home study, Information
Disclosure and References The home study process
is a mutual assessment by you and your social worker of your
strengths and abilities with respect to adopting a child with
special needs. This assessment includes an educational component
which the Ministry provides. To ensure the best match possible
between you and the child, as part of your home study you'll
be asked to provide more information, including a medical
assessment from your family doctor and consent to criminal
record and reference checks. Click here to download the "Physicians
Report on Applicant form".
STEP 4- The Matching Process. Once
your home study has been completed, you will now be considered
for children who are legally free to be adopted. Your home study/profile
will be circulated to other social workers who will review
your file to see if you meet the requirements of any children
on their caseload. There is no set time frame for when you
will be matched with a child; the goal is to find a family
for a child, not a child for a family. Some applicants have
a short wait, while others wait for years.
STEP 5: The Call! Once
you're matched, your social worker will present your family
with a proposal. This proposal often contains a photo of the
child, his/her medical background and a social history. You
should thoroughly review the child's file, ask questions and
possibly consult with doctors or other professionals if there
are any medical or developmental concerns.
STEP 6: If you accept the
match, you will begin pre-placement visits with the child.
If the child lives in a different community, you will be asked
to visit the child in their community. For these first visits,
a worker and sometimes the child's caregiver will be present.
Over time, as your relationship with the child grows, you
will begin to spend time alone with the child and have visits
at your home. You may decide against moving forward any time
in the pre-placement process. If you have any doubts, you
should talk it over with your social worker.
If things proceed well, the social
workers will make the decision about the suitability of the
placement proceeding based on the child's best interests.
STEP 7 - Welcome your new son or
daughter home! After pre-placement visits are completed
to everyone's satisfaction, the child will be placed in your
home. At this point, you will fill out a Notice of Placement
and once six months have passed, your social worker will apply
to the court for an Adoption Order for you and your adoptive
child.
If the child is between the ages of 7 and
12, a social worker will meet with him or her to do a report
on the child's views of the proposed adoption. This report
will form part of a package that the court will consider when
completing the adoption. A child over 12 years of age must
consent to the adoption and any name change.
* Until the child becomes a legal,
permanent member of your family, the Director of Child Protection
remains his or her guardian. Over the six-month period, your
social worker will visit your home at least three times to
ensure the child's well being. This adjustment period is a
very important time. The social worker needs to make sure
that the placement is "right" for both the child
and the family.
The
steps outlined above provide you with basic information on
the adoption process. Individual situations do vary. The average
time from application to home study usually takes a few months.
The Ministry of Children
and Family Development has hundreds of children who are waiting
to be adopted. Several are profiled at the Ministry’s
web site in the Adoption
Bulletin section. According to the web site, the Adoption
Bulletin is only updated 4 times a year and may be out of
date.
For information about the children profiled at the Adoption
Bulletin, send an e-mail to: WaitingChild@bcadoption.com
or contact an Adoptive
Families Association of BC Adoption Support Coordinator
in your area.
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